Monday, March 30, 2009

In Through the Nose Out Through the Mouth

Ever hear of the Impostor Phenomenon? That's the feeling that someone is going to find out that you don't really know anything. This morning, (well actually most of the night too) I am plagued by this feeling that I don't know how, and can't really do it and someone is going to catch me. It's ridiculous for me to feel this way. I have the experience, the track record, the knowledge and the brains to know when I don't know how to do something. I am not afraid of asking questions or looking stupid. So why am I so worried?

Because like every other female entrepreneur out there, I am a perfectionist and I will probably never be satisfied with what I know. So I am going to coach myself a little and I am going to breathe deeply, and I am going to tell myself that I am not the only person who has ever felt this way. Most people do at some point in their lives. 

If you ever feel this way here is my best advice:

Tell yourself that it happens to all of us, most people just don't admit to it. 

Be objective about your skills and come up with a list of reasons why you are the right person for the job. 

Don't ever let doubt get in the way of your dreams. If you do, you will never get anywhere. 

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